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Success but in What?

This is a very important question that every youngster should ask themselves. We are living in a world where everyone wants to be a successful person but the majority of us do not know where they want to be successful. We just know the term success, but voluntarily or non voluntarily we ignore the steps before that success.  Success is not the fame, it is the end product of successive steps taken at the right time. It is the hard work in those steps and the belief in that hard work.  In this society, we are so much addicted to television and social media that we generate the wish of becoming something to get the fame and get displayed on those platforms. No one ever tries to look at the steps they had taken and from which situations they have gone through. We are just focusing on the popularity, not particularity of that person. Many times it is observed that youngsters spent a lot of  their time in just thinking about that name fame and started living in a dreamy world. ...

Nepotism : Beginning of Partiality

Nepotism is the act of promoting the relatives to the top positions regardless of any relevant skills. Nepotism is a sort of partiality, which we are observing in every fields where instead of talented and skilled people, one from a well known family are given the first preferences.   Nepotism is the biggest reason of failure behind any country's development. Nepotism can be seen in various fields like political, Employment, Business, Entertainment and many more. Many countries are facing this problem and India is among one of them. People's skills are not acknowledged in their own country due to which they have to justify themselves outside of their own country. They can be the important element in developing the country but due to the nepotism, they are helpless to work outside and becomes the factor in some other country's development. When nepotism enters the politics, it breaks the spine of the country and makes it weak. After a time period due to nepotism, the competi...

The Untold Reality of Depression

Depression is the mental condition created due to constantly overthinking in a negative way. Depression is nothing but the situations which makes people to feel all alone and keep on thinking negatively.  Due to excessive cases of depressions, it is treated as an illness now a days, which is becoming worst and dangerous day by day. If we think closely depression is developed by ourselves only. Depression is created by finding ourselves, less attractive or lack of money or breakups but it is seen that depression attacks more to whom ,who always mind the remaining society's conditions and make their own life accordingly. By repeatedly reading about health issues, diseases, depression people starts putting themselves in that condition and starts developing the same symptoms as others. Side effects of depression can be alcohol or drug addict, loneliness, sadness, anxious but the effect that is most common is the sense of committing suicide. This thought of suicide is of 5 minutes but t...

Love From Priority To Misunderstandings

Priority is like salt in food, if poured more or less, both can decrease the taste of food cum life. As we have saw that everyone in this world wants attention but in case of love life, this term of attention changes to priorities. Love has started to be compared on the basis of priorities now a days. Priority is the mother of all misunderstandings happening in life. Someone due to some urgency finds to priorities himself other than love, than the situations of misunderstandings starts to create. Misunderstandings is same as its name suggests, not trying to understand is misunderstand. People these days became so much attached with priorities that whenever the situation goes beyond their perspective, they makes their mind to run on the wrong track at very first. Its just the expectation of two lover that made the feeling of priorities. Love should be free of expectations and more on implementations. Not in love life only but in married life also these priorities are creating problems. ...

Parenting : Controlling or Guiding

Your perspective highlights an important issue that many parents face when it comes to guiding their children's career choices and passions. Balancing between nurturing a child's interests and ensuring their future security can be a challenging task.  It's crucial for parents to encourage and support their children's passions and interests. This doesn't mean blindly endorsing any choice they make, but rather understanding what genuinely interests and motivates them. Open and honest communication between parents and children is essential. Parents should take the time to listen to their child's aspirations and engage in meaningful conversations about their goals. Parents should provide their children with information about various career paths and opportunities. This helps children make informed decisions about their future and broadens their horizons. While it's natural for parents to want their children to have a secure future, it's also important to rec...

Pandemic : Punishment and Warning

                                                            As humans have Human rights to raise voice against misdeeds, In the same way nature also raises its voice when human's misdeeds crosses the limits. From 1720 of Plague to 2020 of Corona, All are nature's way of scolding its students. Nature arranged a lot of facilities to us but if go beyond those facilities and start misusing those given facilities, whole world will have to suffer for that. Everyone is fighting for becoming strongest and the best, and for that they are ready to gamble in everything. Nature have provided us various types of food to eat but we are misleading him. Its true that nature has also designed some non veg food too for us but that too was done for a reason to manage the population of such fast growing species. And also those an...

The world of Attention..!!!

                                        People are earning ,travelling ,eating ,dancing ,singing and doing everything for just getting the attention of the world and hence we are living in a world of attention. Very few people are left, who are actually living for themselves. A lot of times, attention act as a motivation for people but when attention lacks, there cannot be any reason of depression and loneliness other than this 'Attention'. We are surviving among culture of showoffs and influencing. We are managing to live in the society of social media, where snaps of eating , timing of travelling , information of birthdays, are uploaded before enjoying them. These all activities are happening just to grab the attention for, why, what, whom, god knows. This attention is not a new term coined, just the way of earning it is changed. Years ago, people used to grab the at...

Love in Need is an Inhuman Deed

When naturally Love happens it feels so beautiful but when a need becomes the base of any love it deeply breaks the opposite victim .Love has remained just a relationship now a days that can be easily broken. And to overcome with this situation we again prefer an another relationship. Every youngster wants to be in love for the sake of society and physic. We have completely changed the meaning of love what it used to be before. People not engaged in love are treated as defective ones by majority of society and youngsters. And also this thing somewhere affected the mentality of non engaged person that they are useless and can't even find love for them. There was a time when love happens with random meetings not intentional searching. Love has become presently focused no future involved .It is observed that Girls are giving importance to wealth and guys are attracting to physics. People have changed their purpose of earning, from living to having relationships. Nothing is changed exc...

Decrementing Patience level : From 3 hours to 15 seconds

Patience is something that checks whether you are capable of holding the trophies of achievements awarded by nature or not. And from a research it was found that the 21st century and onward generations are loosing there patience level which is the biggest reason behind their failures as compared from the previous generations. There was a time when people used to watch movies and listen spiritual knowledge for hours but now we have entered in a scenario where we need entertainment in every second and even we have lost the patience of watching movies and shows for such a long hours. First we have shifted from movies of some hours to webseries having some episodes and each in length of some minutes. Then from those we have shifted to short films of 10-20 minutes. But now tiktok and many entertainment APPS are launched which have limited our capacity of watching and listening to 15 seconds. All these transformations directly affected the generation's patience level as they are addicted...

Confidence on mindset as a Game Changer...!!!

Somewhere sometimes in everyone's life we always had a mindset developed for something but the thing that made us to not believe on our own mindset is lack of confidence. Confidence is the key for every locked creativity in mind. Confidence is very powerful because it generates an energy of attraction that can attract anything you want. The book 'The Secret' also mentioned this that whole universe is working on the law of attraction and even if planets can revolve on the basis of law of attraction and confidence on each other than who the hell are we in front of them, we could definitely achieve whatever we want just with that one term "confidence". Game of successful life begins with the mindset but it sustains with confidence and finishes with the hard work only. Most of the cases of lack of confidence arises due to the generation of a feeling that the mindset is clear but the thought on which that mindset is based is not practical and possible. But the point to...

Story of two best friends : Me and Laziness

Laziness is the mental situation of ignoring the current situation and me is the best friend of this laziness who always supports him. Whenever I overcome this mental situation and start my journey on right path, my best friend pulls me down to the same state. I really enjoyed being with my best friend till I found myself a level down from the same aged people in which I am. Sometimes it becomes very difficult to find whether this laziness as best friend is with me or not. Some confuse this laziness with impossible. Friendship with this best friend increases by spending time on bed. This friendship becomes so strong one day that we cannot even think for ourselves without involving him for atleast once. This is the only friendship that must be broken at right time so that success and creativity can make friendship with us. It is well known that an empty mind is a home for devils and laziness is that catalyst that makes such empty minds. So the question arises how to break the relation w...

Cycle of Lover to Stranger......

To be a stranger is not something new for anyone but to be a stranger after being the lover of someone is way complicated. No one wanted to be a stranger after being so loved but the hit of hammer that broke that chain was of EGO. Even after being detached, the connection could remain on its way or maybe a little lower but now fearless first messages is replaced by the egoistic no replies, which has changed everything. Both the sides wishes to be the same as they used to be before but they have made themselves used to of this weird situation of wishes only. one second replies are shifted to one day and day by day one day to many days. This situation can change a person in two ways of stranger to a stronger version or simply a sympathy gainer. The stronger version is definitely gonna change its life but the problem stands for the sympathy gainer. Some utilize the situation as motivation whiles some still remains in past and live the life of depression. Stranger to friend to lover to str...

Fight of Passion with Profession

There is a very thin rope between passion and profession and that is named as Helplessness. Many times we feels to be very late to find the passion and many time we had the passion but the thing that lacks is support and courage too. Every person have some passion inside but an ignorance to it tends us to choose an unwanted profession. It is never needed to be a graduate from well known universities but it is very important to be well focused on your passion even without any degree. Undesirable profession can feed the stomach but not inner peace. Challenges come when we talk about how to find that one passion on which we can stand. Passion is the Activity in which we feel joy to perform even if we have to do it at 4 AM though. In a person's life only 2 or 3 such activities can be there and no doubt 1 of them can be a passion you could as your profession which will give you inner peace. This way we can apply filters to our list of hobbies and separate out passion from them. Nature...

Who is driver Me or Mind?

Mind is not exactly the one that drives a person on wrong track but the repetitive wrong intentions of a persons tends it to do so. From a research it was found that an average brain can have upto 60000 thoughts per day containing 85% of negative ones. These 85 and 15 percent is all that makes the difference. To increase the percentage of positive thoughts is not the big task we are supposed to perform, the bigger task is to maintain the 15% constantly and make it competitive with those 85% to stay motivated. Mind is very obedient child when it is born but as it grows if we ignores its wrong deeds and many times also supports them as some childish stuffs, those deeds becomes the nature ,culture, emotion of that mind like child. This state becomes dangerous as now child is controlling parents similarly mind controls the person. Its always the human never mind or heart. Mind works on the process of habilitation. It repeats the practice and exercise provided to it on daily basis just like...

Masturbation vs Meditation

                                                  Masturbation has become a part of conversations and controversies both now a days. Masturbation became the joy of 15 minutes and regret of whole remaining day. We humans are now shifted to the small joys in our life. we don't care that how this little duration's joy is gonna affect the whole remaining life of us. masturbation is so easy to perform but after a time period it becomes very tough to forget. On the other hand meditation is way more difficult than meditation and takes a long time for the body to feel like something cheerful has happened to it. That's the basic reason behind we human that we attract towards the easy tasks and tries to skip or do it later tendency to the difficult tasks or time consuming tasks.This behaviour of human is not only on mental level but scientifically a...